The Three Fears That’s Are Paralyzing Your Progress in Life
The experiences of personal suffering and confusion of directions or choices usually come about to evoke a deep sense of discomfort within one´s consciousness. This discomfort we may feel is nature´s way of bringing our attention to lessons we need to learn through these experiences, which we may have already passed over multiple times.
Why then, despite the constant reminder from one´s inner self and the pressing nudging of intuition, is it so difficult to act?
While there are multiple reasons one could cite, in my personal experience of sufferings, life changes, choices, epiphanies, and regrets, I have learned that there are three main fears that cause a total block to advance or bring about a new habit. I have also understood that overcoming these fears is not an overnight process, but a journey of inner engineering and emotion processing that can well be very excruciating to realize. Therefore, because of the pain that this processing may cause, it often leads to an inability to act, keeping one in the same loop of repeated experiences. Disappointments.
Let us examine these three fears.
1. Metathesiophobia: The Fear of Change
Holding on to the same set of people despite feeling out of place, being stuck in a situation where one is not happy, or accepting unfulfilling jobs because of the uncertainty of leaving are some of the symptoms of a more profound fear of change.
This fear is rooted in one´s perspective of the world. It stems from the accumulation of truths and lies that one tells themselves through life. These illusions of truths and deceits that one forms over time come from the life experiences, difficulties, and expectations of other people that form our comfort zone of security. It is important to note that these comfort zones can be conducive to one´s wellbeing or a complete self-sabotage. A comfort zone can be a death bed of personal hopes, visions, and fulfillment if stayed in for too long. Mainly because the idea of sticking to one´s comfort zone too long is, in reality, escaping change or evolution of any form, and is often a deceptive metaphor used to hide more pressing personal needs. These urgent needs or signs from one´s intuition, when avoided, can cause a deep inner conflict, often paralyzing one´s ability to act.
2. Atychiphobia: The Fear of Failure
It can be enticing to put in the struggle and the work that is needed to achieve anything only if one is certain of a successful outcome. The difficulty lies when there is no guarantee of it. Uncertainty of the future often makes one assume disappointing scenarios or worse-case possibilities more than successful outcomes if one thinks from a place of desperation and help.
What will result if I do this? What will people say if I do that? What will my peers and friends think when this occurs? What will I think of myself if I do not achieve it?
These are questions that often paralyze one´s ability to move forward, basing their response on an imaginary picture they have created from their interpretation of failure. More often than not, these interpretations are a result of what the society and their surroundings have made them define. What is failure for one person may be a success for another.
The obsession with perfectionism, comparisons to other, imaginary negative assumptions of possible scenarios, and lack of self-confidence because of hyper-critical adults during childhood are some of the reasons that fuel the fear of failure.
3. Achievemephobia: The Fear of Success
A disguise of the previous fear, the fear of success stems from one´s criticism of own self, a false perception about one´s inability to accomplish something, or a simple feeling of unworthiness that is fuelled by a bickering childhood or manipulative support circle.
People experiencing stagnancy and anxiety in moving ahead may often dread success despite being exceptionally talented because of their belief that they are not good enough. Often this I-am–not-good-enough conclusion comes from one´s comparison to their previous successes or their perceived lack of capacity to achieve it again in the future. This comparison further instills a deeper fear of failure, which shuns any possibility of further action, therefore, forming a vicious circle of fear and disappointments.
Achievemephobia can make people self-destructive because of the belief that they do not deserve the success. This often leads to addictions, harmful patterns, and damaging choices that make them destroy their successes and lose it altogether, by intention.
Fears are part of being human. Although given terms as phobias, in my opinion, everyone at some stage of their lives experience them. What is important is to be aware of the tricks of one´s minds and develop an ability to differentiate one´s true and higher self from negative talk, and develop the consciousness to move forward with courage. After all, courage does not mean you do not get afraid. Courage means to move forward despite the fears with an awareness and self-acceptance while not letting anything pull you down. Least, your own self.
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(i) You have the right to withdraw consent where you have previously given your consent to the processing of your Personal Information. To the extent that the legal basis for our processing of your Personal Information is consent, you have the right to withdraw that consent at any time. Withdrawal will not affect the lawfulness of processing before the withdrawal.
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(iii) You have the right to verify the accuracy of your information and ask for it to be updated or corrected. You also have the right to request us to complete the Personal Information you believe is incomplete.
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(v) You have the right, under certain circumstances, to restrict the processing of your Personal Information. These circumstances include: the accuracy of your Personal Information is contested by you and we must verify its accuracy; the processing is unlawful, but you oppose the erasure of your Personal Information and request the restriction of its use instead; we no longer need your Personal Information for the purposes of processing, but you require it to establish, exercise or defend your legal claims; you have objected to processing pending the verification of whether our legitimate grounds override your legitimate grounds. Where processing has been restricted, such Personal Information will be marked accordingly and, with the exception of storage, will be processed only with your consent or for the establishment, to exercise or defense of legal claims, for the protection of the rights of another natural, or legal person or for reasons of important public interest.
(vi) You have the right, under certain circumstances, to obtain the erasure of your Personal Information from us. These circumstances include: the Personal Information is no longer necessary in relation to the purposes for which it was collected or otherwise processed; you withdraw consent to consent-based processing; you object to the processing under certain rules of applicable data protection law; the processing is for direct marketing purposes; and the personal data have been unlawfully processed. However, there are exclusions of the right to erasure such as where processing is necessary: for exercising the right of freedom of expression and information; for compliance with a legal obligation; or for the establishment, to exercise or defense of legal claims.
(vii) You have the right to receive your Personal Information that you have provided to us in a structured, commonly used, and machine-readable format and, if technically feasible, to have it transmitted to another controller without any hindrance from us, provided that such transmission does not adversely affect the rights and freedoms of others.
(viii) You have the right to complain to a data protection authority about our collection and use of your Personal Information. If you are not satisfied with the outcome of your complaint directly with us, you have the right to lodge a complaint with your local data protection authority. For more information, please contact your local data protection authority in the EEA. This provision is applicable provided that your Personal Information is processed by automated means and that the processing is based on your consent, on a contract which you are part of, or on pre-contractual obligations thereof.
California privacy rights
Consumers residing in California are afforded certain additional rights with respect to their Personal Information under the California Consumer Privacy Act (“CCPA”). If you are a California resident, this section applies to you.
As described in this Policy in the information collection section above, we have collected the categories of Personal Information listed below in the past twelve (12) months:
- Personal identifiers (such as email address, phone number, etc)
- Person’s characteristics (such as age, gender, etc)
- Biometric information (facial recognition, fingerprints, etc)
- Internet or other electronic network activity
- Purchase history
- Geolocation data
- Education records
In addition to the rights as explained in this Policy, California residents who provide Personal Information as defined in the statute to obtain Services for personal, family, or household use are entitled to request and obtain from us, once a calendar year, information about the categories and specific pieces of Personal Information we have collected and disclosed.
Furthermore, California residents have the right to request deletion of their Personal Information or opt-out of the sale of their Personal Information which may include selling, disclosing, or transferring Personal Information to another business or a third party for monetary or other valuable consideration. To do so, simply contact us. We will not discriminate against you if you exercise your rights under the CCPA.
How to exercise your rights
Any requests to exercise your rights can be directed to us through the contact details provided in this document. Please note that we may ask you to verify your identity before responding to such requests. Your request must provide sufficient information that allows us to verify that you are the person you are claiming to be or that you are the authorized representative of such person. If we receive your request from an authorized representative, we may request evidence that you have provided such an authorized representative with power of attorney or that the authorized representative otherwise has valid written authority to submit requests on your behalf.
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We secure information you provide on computer servers in a controlled, secure environment, protected from unauthorized access, use, or disclosure. We maintain reasonable administrative, technical, and physical safeguards in an effort to protect against unauthorized access, use, modification, and disclosure of Personal Information in our control and custody. However, no data transmission over the Internet or wireless network can be guaranteed.
Therefore, while we strive to protect your Personal Information, you acknowledge that (i) there are security and privacy limitations of the Internet which are beyond our control; (ii) the security, integrity, and privacy of any and all information and data exchanged between you and the Website and Services cannot be guaranteed; and (iii) any such information and data may be viewed or tampered with in transit by a third party, despite best efforts.
As the security of Personal Information depends in part on the security of the device you use to communicate with us and the security you use to protect your credentials, please take appropriate measures to protect this information.
In the event we become aware that the security of the Website and Services has been compromised or Users’ Personal Information has been disclosed to unrelated third parties as a result of external activity, including, but not limited to, security attacks or fraud, we reserve the right to take reasonably appropriate measures, including, but not limited to, investigation and reporting, as well as notification to and cooperation with law enforcement authorities. In the event of a data breach, we will make reasonable efforts to notify affected individuals if we believe that there is a reasonable risk of harm to the User as a result of the breach or if notice is otherwise required by law. When we do, we will post a notice on the Website, send you an email.
Changes and amendments
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An updated version of this Policy will be effective immediately upon the posting of the revised Policy unless otherwise specified. Your continued use of the Website and Services after the effective date of the revised Policy (or such other act specified at that time) will constitute your consent to those changes. However, we will not, without your consent, use your Personal Information in a manner materially different than what was stated at the time your Personal Information was collected.
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